for the one who feels the urge to escape and immediately opens a new tab
Goal
Ride out the escape urge during a focus block without acting on it.
Source principle
Tolerate discomfort: the urge to escape is data to notice for 90 seconds, not a command to obey. : from The Now Habit by Neil Fiore.
The plan
- โฒ๏ธ0:00-0:02Start a 30-min timer. Begin the task.
- ๐ฝ๏ธ0:02-0:05Set up: open the doc, clear the desk. Just the setup.
- โถ๏ธ0:05-0:30Work the task. Single-tasked. No tabs.
- ๐0:30-0:31When the escape urge hits: pause. Don't open a tab.
- ๐ฃ๏ธ0:31-0:32Name it out loud: 'bored / anxious / hard'.
- ๐ฌ๏ธ0:32-0:33Breathe for 90 seconds without acting. Don't reach for phone.
- ๐๏ธ0:33-0:34Notice: the urge is data, not an order. It can be felt without being obeyed.
- ๐0:34-0:35Return to the task. Same task, same timer. Keep going.
- โ
0:35-1:00Continue until the bell. Log one win: 'I rode out the urge.'
Reward
A 5-minute stretch and water break after the block ends, only if the urge was ridden out.